Bringing Metta to Daily Life-A Talk by Bhante Vimalaramsi

You will find no finer or deeper teaching on Loving-Kindness than that of Ven. Bhante Vimalaramsi. I hope this short excerpt from a talk he gave on bringing loving-kindness to daily life will send you to his website to read the whole article. (Link below)

Metta in Daily Life

Ven.Bhante Vimalaramsi

What we need to learn how to do is carry that open heart with us with all the different activities we do during the day. Open up and… well, let’s put it this way. When you’re doing your sitting practice, you send Loving-Kindness to yourself and you send Loving-Kindness to your spiritual friend, and that’s all.

But with your daily activities, the other times, you can send Loving-Kindness to anybody. You can send it to individual people, you can send it to groups of people, you can send it to all beings, it’s up to you.

But the thing that you want to try to do is start making keys for yourself. A key like: when you’re brushing your teeth, that that’s your time to send Loving-Kindness. When you’re walking from your house to your car, try to use that as a key, for that’s the time to open up your heart and send Loving-Kindness.

Now you’re going to forget sometimes, just like you do here, and that’s OK. There’s no problem with that. But when you see your mind is wandering, then you want to begin again. And that should be the name of this practice: “Do It Again”, or “Play It Again”, is that the…? [laughter] When you’re walking from your car to wherever you have to go, what are you doing with your mind? Your mind is just kind of ho-humming around, getting caught in all kinds of unwholesome mental states, or it’s just kind of flying around thinking about this or that. So you use that, getting out of your car, or getting into your car, as your key to practice your Loving-Kindness. Open up your heart and, and if there’s someone that you know that is suffering, send them some kind thoughts. Put them in your heart, radiate that Loving-Kindness to them.

The more times you focus on having an open heart, the more easily the practice progresses. And this is because, when you have an open heart, and you’re radiating that Loving-Kindness, you’ll notice it very quickly when it closes, when you get caught by thoughts and feelings and all kinds of whatever the circus is that’s running in town at that day. So gently let go of those thoughts, let go of those feelings, relax. Wish somebody happiness.

Read the full talk here:

If you are interested in further teachings of Bhante Vimalaramsi, here are some related posts:

Mindfulness of Breathing-The Anapanasati Sutta

“The Lord Buddha taught the methods of meditation (bhávaná) or mental development to free the mind from tension. The essence of meditation is to open and calm one’s mind and accept whatever that arises without any tightening at all. And thus, this book of instructions is written for those who are on this noble quest.

To a beginner, these instructions may appear confusing and difficult to understand but one will gradually discover the many benefits when these instructions are followed closely.”

Learn Metta Vipassana from a Master Teacher

Bhante Vimalaramsi teaches Metta Vipassana or Tranquil Wisdom Meditation using the directions given in the Pali Suttas. Metta, of course, is loving-kindness meditation, and vipassana is insight meditation. In Bhante Vimalaramsi’s own words:

“After I had experienced all the stages of meditation that a Vipassana practitioner is supposed to experience, I remained unsatisfied and went back to Malaysia. I began instructing many people in meditation, teaching the Loving-Kindness form. This is the style which the Buddha, according to the suttas, taught to the ordinary people who came to listen to him.”


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